Tuesday, September 14, 2010

The Wedding of Diane and John

                                                                       WARNING!  MANY PHOTOS AHEAD!




                                                                                    Part the First -

     The dawn was just a very faint glow in the eastern sky when Christina and I, early Monday morning just after 5am, August 30th, 2010 said goodbye to Marie and Muffy and headed over the Champlain Bridge onto Autoroute 15 and, once off the Island of Montreal, pointed the old van due south to the NY border and the I-83 and into 5 days of hot, southern weather. We were off to Florida for the marriage of sister Diane - hereafter named Dee - and her partner of a long time, John Boucher. The wedding was scheduled for the 4th September at 11:00am and I was hoping the camper would get us there at least the day before. We left one of the hottest months on record in Quebec and were soon to find out there would be no reprieve from the heat that had settled over eastern North America. By 0630am we had cleared customs at Champlain and were soon on our way through Plattsburgh and the Adirondacks.


    After a drive of almost 10 hours we decided to stop for the night. Just near Montgomery, NY we found a county-run park called Winding Hills, in a heavily wooded area with a lake in a very natural setting. We saw quite a few wild deer and most were very tame. The lake, alas, was thick with algae and full of snapping turtles as big as a truck tire - or so the locals said. I was not willing to find out. I built a campfire and we cooked up some fresh corn-on-the-cob and soup for supper, then turned in to the sound of a million insects in the towering pines around us.


Unfortunately a $5 resistor thingamabob that controls the ignition decided to pack up the next morning when we were ready to leave and we had to wait around 4 hours until I could get a hold of AAA for a tow to the nearest garage in Walden. Thankfully the service was great, the people friendly and I was not ripped off (total cost of repairs and labour was $127). By noon we were off and running towards Albany, 7 hours behind schedule! I decided to avoid NYC and headed southwest into Pennsylvania and down towards Harrisburg. Another scorching day in the 90s as we chugged along interstate 78, blasted every few minutes by huge semi trailers. I should have known that I-78 is the major road linking ports in the New York City and New Jersey area to points west, and sees over 4 million trucks annually. One of the worst roads in the country in my opinion - can you believe an interstate with only 2 lanes in many places - so I decided to call it quits just after 3pm near Lenhartsville in the middle of Pennsylvania Dutch country. The van was getting hot, as was I, and I had visions of breaking down on that awful piece of highway. There we found a family campground called Blue Rocks with a very welcome pool and clean showers.



After a quiet night we were up at 5am and ready to roll. I had planned to go through Delaware and do the bridge to Virginia but we wanted to make some time so went through Maryland instead, avoiding Washington, and then into Virginia, hoping eventually to head out towards cooler air along the Atlantic. The temperatures continued to climb though and by 2 PM it was close to 100F and by then it was time to look for a place to camp. We had been going 10 hours and the old girl was starting to complain whenever we got into heavy traffic and I could not get up enough speed to enable the air (even though it was like a blast furnace) to cool the rad. It seemed like it took forever to get through Norfolk (I have a name for that place that sounds similar) and into Chesapeake and just north of the Carolina state line we found a campground off highway 17. It was a huge place, on a 100 acre farm near the Inland Coastal Waterway and the geological wonder known as the Great Dismal Swamp. But as much as we would have liked to visit these places time was now our enemy and the wedding was only 3 days away.


                                            

  The next morning, very early again, we were up and running down Highway 17 into North Carolina, my intention to go out to the Outer Banks, a 200-mile long string of narrow barrier islands off the coast, and stop along the beach for a few hours. Marie, Phil and I had been there a few years ago and I had always wanted to return. It is a wild and totally desolate place at times, dotted with old lighthouses and miles of sand dunes as far as the eye can see. The Wright brothers' first flight in a powered, heavier-than-air vehicle took place there in 1903, at Kill Devil Hills near the seafront town of Kitty Hawk and I would have liked to stop there for a few hours as well. But fate intervened by the name of one Hurricane Earl, a Category 4 storm with winds of 140 mph that was only 80 miles off the coast when we passed by. Although it was another beautiful cloudless day and already into the 90s I could just see off into the distant Atlantic the outer fringes of the storm and, as we were getting constant warnings on the radio to leave the area as a mandatory evacuation was in effect, there was not much else for us to do but turn west and make for the I-95. Another day lost, I thought as we turned onto the one Interstate I was hoping to avoid at Rocky Mount, and headed back south towards Florence. We crossed into South Carolina and stopped at one of the USAs biggest tourist traps to gas up and look for a bathing suit for Christina - South of the Border. For the past 2 hours on I-95 we had seen the billboards every few miles featuring Pedro the mascot, wearing an oversized sombrero and poncho, counting down the number of miles to, and promoting, South of the Border. Needless to say neither of us were impressed and vowed never to return!



And as I have done countless times over the past 40 years driving between Canada and the USA on my way to visit family in Florida I again found myself crossing Lake Marion and, as we were already halfway through the state, thought it might be time to stop and go for a swim. So, off the beaten path of SC Hwy 6, four miles east (exit 98) of I-95, we stumbled across Mill Creek marina and campground - very friendly, very southern and very hot. As it was right on Lake Marion, I went for a beer and a swim, together. The water was very warm, the beer very cold. The lake is one of the two largest man-made lakes in SC that make up the Santee Cooper Lake System and fishermen from all over come for the catfish and large mouth bass. Not a trace of Hurricane Earl or fish for that matter, but a nice breeze appeared out of the east and after a few more cold ones and a so-so dinner at the camp restaurant I slept like a log.




Our last day on the road started like all the others, up and on the road before 5am, still dark but a hint of light over the Atlantic. By the time we rolled into the outskirts of Savannah, Georgia the sun was already burning on my left arm. A quick few hours and by 9am we had crossed into Florida, stopping at the Florida welcome centre to make some calls and stretch our legs before the final haul into Brooksville. I took I-10 in Jacksonville to the 301 turnoff to Starke and, as Christina had never had boiled peanuts, we picked some up along the roadway and spat shells all the way to the I-75 in Ocala. The turnoff to Brooksville came into view before 3pm and we had made it. One day before the wedding. No air conditioning and ...no way I will do that drive again in August!


Part the Second -


We did not have alot of time to get ready for the wedding but as it was almost come as you are I was not too concerned. I had originally planned to just wear a sock, but, with Rich and I both happen to be wearing black, we went as the Blues Brothers. It was great to see all the family together for the first time in a few years - Richard and Hayley had arrived from Ontario the day before us, Caroline a day before Rich flying in from Utah. Isaac (Dees eldest) and his wife Alicia were there as well (the first time we had met!) and one strange bird everyone called Weedly....she performed the wedding. It was a glorious day, not too hot with a blue sky and puffy white clouds overhead. For a gift from us I gave Dee and John a triptych I had painted of a mountain scene - completely different than anything they usually decorate their home with as Dee likes her Florida scenes, the sea, shells and fish. It was a  great day as Dad gave Dee away and the happy couple posed for photos. I think Lyn and I were the designated photographers so I took a hundred or so digital shots (some included below), Lyn 5 or 6 rolls of 35mm.  The next day Dee and John were scheduled to embark on their honeymoon - a Carribbean cruise to the Caymans, Cozumel, Roatan and Belize. Bon voyage to you both and in your new life ahead remember that happiness is a way of travel, not a destination....








 
 
                                                       













                                                                                     Part the Third -


                         Following the reception the rest of the afternoon was dedeicated to only one thing -















                                                                               Part the Forth -


I spent three more days with Lyn and Don, visiting with Mom and Dad, and preparing the van for its winter hibernation. Hopefully it will not be invested with ants and spiders when we return in the new year! This trip I saw more than the usual number of banana spiders and had the opportunity to meet them face to face on more than one occasion walking around Dons or Dads properties. They are the largest non-tarantula spiders in North America and I saw some with bodies the size of my little finger, and leg spans of over 5 inches. They are relatively harmless so I had no fear getting close to them with my camera. Like all my photos if you click on the image it will open up v e r y large!
Before flying back north on the 8th Christina and I had the opportunity to go out with the gang on Dons boat to Crystal River, home of the manatee. We did not see any of these slow moving mammals but did encounter a few dolphins, flying fish and spent an hour swimming in the Gulf. Nearby the Crystal River 3 Nuclear Power Plant dominated the horizon - manatees often congregate near power plants, which warm the waters and I thought it a strange symbiosis how creatures millions of years old quickly adapt to the 21st century. On the 8th Rich, Hayley and Christina headed east to Lake Worth for a week after dropping me off at the airport in Tampa and are still no doubt basking in the Florida sun. Life now returns to normal here in the Great White North, fall is in the air and already the local papers are predicting the upcoming fortunes of the Montreal Canadiens hockey season.



















Part the Fifth -





While I was gone Marie was busy finishing the counter tops in the kitchen - she cut the laminate sheet, glued and rolled it, bought a fixed base router and did the edges as good as any professional. She never ceases to amaze me with her talents and the photo shows what a wonderful job she did. That is her in her office, taken last month. The front balcony was completed this past Saturday as well and can now be used again. Sorry I cannot say Marie did it as we hired two young guys who finished it in 8 hours. This weekend we are heading out to the cabin to continue installing the pine tongue and groove on the walls and enjoy some much needed peace and quiet. It is time for me to turn down the volume knob on life for a while....Phils back yard BBQ is now scheduled for the 25th. So stay tuned for more photos!  Till next time. gws

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

On Marriage - for Philippe and Fernanda

Phil & Fer,Fortress Louisbourg,Cape Breton,NS Aug 2010

   Marie and I were delighted to hear the news of the upcoming marriage of our son Philippe to Fernanda this coming December in Cancun, Mexico. To them both we wish the most wonderful life together and much happiness. I hope we have set a good example over the years, and although our wedding was back in 1989, I can honestly say to them that the celebration still continues to this day! Here is a poem by Kahlil Gibran, poet and author of the Prophet, I have always liked and which I would like to share with them called On Marriage :



You were born together, and together you shall be for evermore.

You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.

Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness,

And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.


Love one another, but make not a bond of love:

Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.

Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf

Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,

Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.


Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.

For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together yet not too near together:

For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each others shadow.





August 15th 1989 Bridgetown, Nova Scotia





Phil was thrilled to find out from PC Insiders (Loblaws grocery store) this past week that he was the official Grand Prize winner of the Presidents Choice Big BBQ Party for the Quebec region! This includes a backyard makeover design consultation and a BBQ meal to feed 30 people, equipment and staff to a maximum of $7500! He is planning the big event for September after I return from Florida! Meanwhile we are all preparing to spend Christmas in Mexico City before flying on to Cancun until the end of the year. Rumour has it that Mexicana airlines will be cancelling more flights as they have recently filed a protection petition through Chapter 15 of the United States bankruptcy code. Keep your fingers crossed we are not affected. Here in Montreal the hot, dry (mostly) summer continues. We (Marie and I, Phil and Fer, and Lara and Chad) all greatly enjoyed the Michael Bublé concert at the Bell centre earlier in the month, but next time we will get tickets a little bit closer! Our seats were in the nose bleed section and the supply of oxygen at those heights was limited! Paul McCartney played there the following week and I am still kicking myself I did not get tickets when they were announced...We are slowly finishing the renovations to the duplex -Verdun Windows and Doors was in to take some measurements for the dining room windows and bedroom door to the balocony which will be installed in September, and I am waiting for a quote on the balcony replacement. I have almost finished the entranceway and stairs, having now installed limestone tile from Turkey in the foyer, replaced the lights and painted a two-tone blue on the walls. I did the steps in a light grey acrylic anti-slip paint that has a gritty feel - a runner will be installed as soon as we can find something to match the colour scheme. The pictures do not do it justice - the beautiful embroidery under the sconce was done by Mom in 1995! 






 Last weekend we were at the cabin installing t&g pine on the ceiling - it looks good and we should be done before October. Marie and I spent a morning going over the final list of potential homes we will choose from and measuring out the footprint for the foundation. These photos will give you an idea of what style we think will look good in our location and size (1000sq ft approx) we can afford! Invariably the final result will be a  combination of them all with redeeming features like a large deck, chimney on the north side and large ground to ceiling windows facing the southeast. Because of the heavy snow in the area we have to go with a steep sloping roof. I am partial to the second one.....






We moved our firepit up to the house level as well - closer to the wood piles I made when I cleared the road a few years ago - and away from the bushes near the cabin. The view is nicer and its drier when it rains. It is one of our ongoing pleasures when we go out to the cabin to sit around the fire after supper with a glass of wine waiting for dusk to creep up on us and the stars begin to appear, watching the flames slowly burn down to a bright glow and listening to strange sounds from the woods. A few weeks ago we were at the bottom of our driveway and met a mother moose and her calf walking towards us. They watched us for a few minutes and disappeared into the bush, not batting an eye! They are so quiet and always about but usually only can be seen in the evening. Last month when I was up at the cabin by myself I noticed three wind turbines way off in the distance (much to my surprise!). It was evening and the sun was setting. It was the slanting rays of the sun hitting the towers that attracted my attention - just visible to the naked eye. I found out that they are part of the Kibby Mountain wind farm project — comprising forty-four 3 MW wind turbines strung along the ridges of Kibby Mtn. to the southeast of us across the border. Half the turbines were put online in October 2009 and I only just noticed them! Click on the image and it will open up in a larger size and if you look at the centre of the photo you will see them - they are too far away to see the actual blades without binoculars but you can pick them out in the photo.





 This weekend Lara and Chad finally move into their new home and it is only a few days before Christina and I drive the old Ram van down to Florida for the last time for the wedding of sister Dee and John. I bought a new tire for the 30 year old beast, had the garage across the street give it a tune up and changed the oil, and put on the spare that has been lying in the weeds behind the shed for years. She is ready ( I hope) to go. We leave on the 30th and I am giving us 4 days to get there - arriving a day before the wedding. Marie has been busy replacing some faulty water connections on the toilet and cleaning the interior for us. I can tell she wants to go as well and I am sure we will both miss the van - we have had it now for almost 10 years and it has given us many miles of pleasureable and reliable service, twice to Florida, twice to Boston, a few times to the Maritimes, around the Gaspé and two years ago to Campbell River on Vancouver Island, BC and back through the deserts of Oregon and Utah! But it is getting too old to fix here in Quebec and will probably cost too much before it could pass the rigid safety checks they insist on doing to any vehicle coming into the province from outside (in this case, Ontario). We now have another reason to escape the long winter here by going south for a week in February to do some work on it. We will eventually be replacing the van and our current 1999 Dodge Dakota with a new diesel HD 3-4 or 1 ton pickup that can carry a camper and, because both these Dodges have been reliable, we should probably consider another Chrysler product. Ford, GM or Dodge - they all have their followers or naysayers and as this will be our last vehicle it will be a difficult decision to make. Recommendations and testimonials are always welcome!
   That is it on the news at this end. The next time I blog will be after the 8th of September when I fly back to Montreal. In the meantime thanks for all the positive feedback and to all of you out there who read this enjoy the remaining weeks of summer! Love, always....



                                                                                          gws